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Monday, December 28, 2009

A Christmas Poem


Christmas comes but once a year,
used to be snow, but now, my dear,
we've got sunshine and green grass,
and driving elsewhere a little too fast.

I used to curl up with some hot cocoa,
and belligerently ignore all the snow,
but now I've got ten hours in a car,
with my hubby and a cat truly alarmed.

Where it's on to my big sister's house,
(we're the normal ones & of that, I'm proud),
to cook, play pool and sing to my niece,
who stubbornly insists she's now taller than me.

Where my babe will borrow my nephew's new gift,
playing his drums until he gets a whiff
of my chocolate macaroon pizza pie,
and he'll zip down the stairs to give it a try.

It's off to the movies but, due to a flood,
we get rerouted, which works out good
for the missionaries, neighbors and friends,
that all end up joining us in the end.

We'll take photos & eat till we're sick,
play Balderdash & some booty we'll kick,
open our cheery gifts & take a nap,
swear to each other that we'll be back.

Yep, it used to be frost, sludge & snow,
shivering because it was nearly 20 below,
saying that just meant the holidays were here,
and that made the fire all the more dear.

But this year we've had a Christmas true,
half a country away from what we knew,
because celebrating a real Christmas, to me,
is just being part of a cozy, warm family.

Monday, December 14, 2009

Opportunities Arise

There I was, kicking back with some fudge and ready to spend the day on laundry, wrapping Christmas presents and watching "B" movies on Netflix. Sure, fudge wasn't the breakfast of champions, but it's the holidays, right? Right.

Long story short, next thing I knew, I'm dressed in business attire riding my way up to the top floor on an elevator for San Antonio's
KLUP and KSLR radio shows, about to discuss creating a program based on my restaurant reviews.


Apparently, Jim Belt, a producer and talk show host at those fine stations, stumbled across my reviews one day and found them both user-friendly and entertaining. He started referencing them for his show, Weekends with Jim and Kim, until he had the stellar idea of bringing me on the show as the "expert San Antonio restaurant reviewer." I met with him and Kim (both articulate, entertaining Christians who are involved in a lot of the important things going on here in SA) to discuss the possibility of working on something together. He gave me a tour of the stations and I left with a lot of thinking to do.

Next thing I know, there I am again. Sitting on the sofa, munching on carrots--to make up for the fudge phase--and I stumble across a job posting to be the community manager at
Yelp, where I wrote reviews a few months ago. Friday, I turned in my cover letter and resume (they said to show your personality, which equated to me referencing volunteers being attacked by kittens on live TV; you know, the normal day-to-day stuff of a PR Specialist) and had my first interview this morning, which went well. The position, which they want filled by January, would entail lots of writing and party planning. Next I am scheduled to chat with the Regional Director.

I found out Sunday that our stake is going to be starting Roadshows next month, which fall under the Activities Committee, of which I am chairperson. Plus, I've got our
church's Valentine's Day Dance, Ward Camp Out and the possibility of helping with Girls' Camp again. And I'm still volunteering at the Helotes Humane Society coordinating their volunteers, doing data entry and chipping in at events.

The dilemma, friends, comes from having so many amazing opportunities in my life. When I have all these options, I start to get a little overwhelmed. What happened to laundry and fudge-filled mornings?


But the important thing is that I have been given all these wonderful opportunities to make a difference in the world, to contribute something meaningful. Like Spencer W. Kimball said, "My life is like my shoes--meant to be worn out in service." Well, my life is like my hair, meant to be donated to Locks of Love. And, I remind myself when I start to think of all the things I could do in the world, my talents are to be used to make a difference and testify of Christ. I'm blessed to have so many options for doing just that.


(And if anyone stumbles across an instruction manual for how to make important, life-altering choices, could you send it my way?)

Thursday, December 10, 2009

It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas!


It's arrived! Time to bust out the boxes, unwrap the nativity set and load my little, Charlie Brown Christmas tree with way too many ornaments. I love this season... and I love decorating for it! I thought I would send some holiday spirit your way, via decor. Merry Christmas, to one and all!

Monday, December 7, 2009

The Foulks in Foggy Boston

I'm one to get glossy-eyed over columns, moon over cobblestone streets, and wax poetic about soaring skylines, so when Mike told me his family was planning on celebrating Thanksgiving in Boston, I was elated.
Boston has historical importance (hello Boston Massacre & Boston Tea Party!) and plenty of awesome touristy sights, like Salem and Harvard. But I was also just plain excited to eat turkey and stuffing with Mike's family. We joined his parents, Loretta & Don, and his sister's family, Lindsay, Keir, Cayden, Conner and Allison (no, she's not named after me) for some major eating and relaxing, along with a good amount of sight seeing in the chilly weather.

Mike loves his nieces and nephews and spending time with them. Plus, I had to get a photo of the Allies!
One of the highlights of the trip for me was going to Salem, where the witch trials occured. I love to read about this intriguing period of our country's history. Look below for a photo of me and Samantha from Bewitched. Like Loretta said, somebody in Salem has a good sense of humor!



One of the neat side trips we did involved taking a Duck tour, which consists of riding in a vehicle that goes on land and in water. It was rainy and foggy, but we loved seeing all the sights of Boston!

We also celebrated Cayden's 4th birthday at Chuck E Cheese's, where Mike enjoyed being a kid again. And what Thanksgiving would be complete without a turkey photo? Keir BBQed the turkey this year... awesome!

I know it's weird, but I have a thing for tombstones. I love them! Boston had the most interesting cemeteries I have even seen, and we got to see the tombstones for Hester Prynn, Mother Goose, Paul Revere and the Boston Massacre victims. Wow! Here we are in front of Paul Revere's house in Little Italy. Foulk family, we love you! Boston, you're pretty cool too.

Saturday, November 14, 2009

Birthday Boy

Oops, I forgot to post all about Mike's 30th birthday! I've been thinking about this milestone for a while now and wanted to do something special. However, if you know Mike, you understand that he is what we call a low key kind of guy. We were considering having a Halloween party and I figured I could bring out the cake and have everyone sing to him then. Not one to be demonstrative, he said he would rather just have the cake sans party. This is the little cake I whipped up for him. I found it hysterically funny. Mike laughed, then he cried, then he ate cake.


Given the change in presidency here in America, bullets have been hard to come by as of late, which has made Mike a little less than happy. He got a nice, new shiny gun a few years ago and hasn't been able to shoot it lots. My dad makes bullets and so I propositioned him to make 500 for Mike for his birthday. Making them and getting them shipped to Texas (I had to involve HazMat) was no small task but eventually they got here. I gave Mike a bag with one bullet in it. He was a little confused until I busted out a huge box of bullets. Ba-zing!We also had our ward Halloween party a few nights later, where we appeared as the incredible duo of ghost and Ghostbuster. It was brilliant.

Friday, November 13, 2009

What Forever Looks Like

Last week, I packed my bags and jumped on a plane headed for good ole Idaho. One of my oldest friends, Sharlee Larson, was getting married in the Boise temple and I was excited to be her bridesmaid--a first for me!
I met Sharlee in the 9th grade in a theater class and was immediately impressed by how open I could be with her. One of my first memories of Sharlee is when I told her my dad died when I was little and she started crying... right in the middle of class and then gave me a huge hug. Not many people feel that deeply for relative strangers. Opinionated and passionate, Sharlee is the kind of friend that sticks by you no matter what. We saw each other through some tough times, like an
indecipherable Chemistry class and years of tortured crushes. But there are plenty of good moments too, like watching Dirty Dancing (in pure, unadulterated teenage awe) at Sharlee's house and her being one of my bridesmaids when I tied the proverbial knot.
Below is a slideshow of her wedding, and I'll try to post a video of her bouquet toss, which was brilliant.
Of course, no visit to Boise would be complete without some old friends and family time. In a few days, I saw my old friends Stacy and Chelsea, two old college roommates Shawnee and Holly, my cousin Corey and his wife Corin, my aunt and uncle, and my crazy buds Andrea and Alyssa. And, yes, I made Dad's day by going shooting with him and Mom and I went shopping in the thriving metropolis of Nampa.
Speaking of Mom, she is doing good and had just finished her 4th treatment of chemo for breast cancer while I was visiting. My mom is amazing... she looks so good in these photos, you never would know she is going through a lot. She was ecstatic to go book & Christmas shopping with me, and then go check out the beautiful tree colors downtown.
Another highlight was that, after Sharlee's wedding, Andrea and I threw a bachelorette party for our friend Alyssa, who was getting married the next day. They are both amazingly talented salsa dancers... and then there's me, a complete newbie... but at least one with rhythm! And, yup, Mike was okay with me dancing with strangers namely because it meant he didn't have to go with me.
All in all, a brilliant trip. I miss you, Boise!


Saturday, October 31, 2009

A Day in the Life Of...

The last time I visited home, my mom popped one of those let's-evaluate-your-life questions on me. We spend a lot of our time chatting about day-to-day things, and I think she sometimes wonders about the deeper aspects of my life. Her exact questions started out pretty normal but rapidly progressed to investigative journalism. "So what do you and Mike do for fun? Are you and Mike happy in San Antonio? Would you describe married life as perfect bliss?"

I started out with some basic answers, but the thread of questions intrigued me a bit. Mom and I started talking about why she was asking me those questions. She told me that her and my dad were so busy raising kids when they were little more than children themselves that they always had a difficult time actually envisioning what my life was like. I left for college at 17 and haven't lived in Boise since then, so I can understand why
she can't really envision what a boring, normal day looks like for me.

Apparently, the questioning thread runs through my family, because the last time I talked to one of my much-older, distant sisters, she also asked me a series of life-assessing questions. She finished with a doozy about my husband Mike (
except refers to him as my boyfriend Mark).

So, Mom, here's a little break down of a typical Alli day to help you walk in my shoes and, sister, for your
inquiring mind as well. I apologize beforehand for any resemblance this may or may not have to a Seinfield episode.

Monday, November 2, 2009 (a completely normal, boring day)


8:30- Up and at 'em. By up, I mean awake. By at 'em, I mean responding to emails and downing some homemade granola.

9 - Go to work, which consists of me (still wearing PJs) sitting on the sofa writing reviews for an Italian restaurant and a physical rehab place Mike has being going to for a pinched nerve.

10 - Mike gets back from physical therapy, which he has twice a week for a month, we chat & he goes to work.

10:15 - Take my vitamins, do a yoga video & shower.
11:15 - Go to lunch with my old Humane Society work friend at our favorite cafe & go grocery shopping.

1:30 - Chat with Mom and play Bejeweled.
2 - Do laundry and dishes while watching America's Next Top Model, eat Oreos, pay bills.

3:30 - Back to work to write reviews for a resale boutique, an antique store, a French shop, a cafe & a card store . I also post photos & edit the website.
5:30 - Done working! Chat with a friend that stops by & watch part of an old Rock Hudson movie.
6:30 - Mike's home! Make dinner (and by make I mean heat up some clam chowder soup and bake some biscuits).
7:30 - Take Halloween tablecloths back to church, play a game of basketball with Mike in the cultural hall, then go for our 2-mile walk.
9 - Read my latest book, check Facebook, update my blog, reply to more emails and eventually call it a night.

Now you know, Mom. Isn't it exciting stuff? Can't wait to watch some serious Pride and Prejudice with you in Boise. Let's see, that will take up only 6 hours of our day....

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Because You Asked...

Monday, October 19, 2009

Making Peace with my Sewing Machine

It taunted me, leering at me with steely needles of doom from its perch up in the loft, challenging my abilities to sew even the most simple of garments without something going horribly awry. Case in point, I tried to hem this cute little dress I got for $6 on eBay and broke the hand wheel. Three months and $75 later, the sewing machine declared its victory over me. I had to stamp a Singer Lightweight Territory sticker on my forehead for a few days, but I figured out a way to style my bangs to hide it.

Considering this tragic relationship, you can understand my apprehension when my friend invited me to make fall placemats with her. I warned her that, despite my mellow personality and general good will, my sewing machine may induce loud noises--aka, shouts of frustration--on my part. She said she didn't mind, so a few days later, we picked out some cute fabrics and got started. This is the product of only 3 1/2 hours of work:
And side 2 for Christmas(yes, it is two-sided, which added all sorts of difficulty for this newbie):Bursting with pride at my first project, I sewed up a huge hole in our slipcover (where kitty had used our sofa as a scratching post). Then I went to Super Saturday and tackled not only one, but 6 appliqued gifts, 5 for baby showers and 1 for Christmas, gift tags and magnets. Here they are in all their glory:

And me in my apron, which is blue and brilliant:On another note, my birthday was awesome. We had some friends over and played games and ate birthday cake. Mike gave me the best gifts ever, including, but not limited to, a Barnes and Noble gift certificate, a teddy bear, Andes mints (the last two he gave to me 6 years ago for Valentine's Day... aww), and, drum roll please, a New Moon poster. Brilliant! I love you, honey! Thanks for making my birthday special.

Friday, October 9, 2009

These are a few of my favorite things...

I know I am in danger of sounding like a crazy cat lady, but my Siamese kitty Cranberry really keeps me entertained during the day. This is her being a maniac.

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My husband also makes me smile, especially when we go up to the hill country north of San Antonio just to play and have fun. This is him doing a rain dance.


Okay, not really. He had just kicked a football. Look at his mad skills.


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Another one of my favorite things is the fact that San Antonio has been so green lately! Me + awesome tree + green grass + cooler weather = happy! The end.

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Specific Insights from General Conference

The 179th General Conference for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints took place this past weekend and, as Mike and I settled into our sofas and dug into our omelets (courtesy my hubby) Saturday morning, I realized just how excited I was to hear the Prophet and the Lord's apostles speak. I filled about 6 pages of my notebook with insights and directions, but I thought I would share just two things that struck me here.

We need to love God not for Him, but for us. This thought, spoken by Elder Uchtdorf, really resonated within me. I had previously supposed that God commanded us to love Him simply because it was the right thing to do, or maybe because it could give us some motivation to do what He told us was right. But Elder Uchtdorf said, "God does not need us to love Him. But, oh, how we need to love Him." We need to love God for ourselves. Allowing us to love Him is a particular blessing God is giving us, a peace and a reassurance for our minds and hearts.

My next insight came from a talk from Kent Watson, who spoke about tempered glass, which is glass that will not shatter into sharp bits, but instead break into little pieces that will not injure. He applied this to our lives and the fact that we need to be temperate. Being temperate, to me, means being calm, controlled, and responsible with that for which we are accountable. I think that if we can be these things, we will be less likely to break under pressure. Also, if we are strained beyond that which we can endure, as we practice temperance, we will be less likely to hurt those around us.

Both of these insights made--and will hopefully continue to make--a difference in my life. Knowing that God's commands to love Him is actually a gift to us gives me peace. I also feel that, as I temper myself, I will be stronger and better equipped to strengthen and uplift those around me.

I am looking forward to next April, the 180th time we as members of this church, get to be taught again.

Wednesday, September 30, 2009

The Widow's Mite


Hello friends and family! I have stumbled upon one of my favorite artists. His name is James Christensen and his work is amazing! He is LDS and I found him in a magazine at my mom's house that compelled me to scoure the internet for more of his work. The above is called The Widow's Mite and I find it beautiful.
Next favorite is called Sometimes the Spirit Touches Us Through our Weakness:

The black and white checkered ground is symbolic of the world, the man of us with our weaknesses, and the spirit of... well, the spirit. Many of these paintings have inner messages that may or may not be apparent, but are fun to look for either way.
I have a brilliant (if I do say so myself) idea. When we have a house with a little nursery, (not announcing anything, just daydreaming) I would love to decorate it with these paintings. I could paint the bottom half of the wall with black and white checkers and leave the top half for these beautiful spiritual/fantastical paintings.
In fact, it is such a cool idea, that I would totally do it in a more popular area of the house (like the living room!) but the checkers might be a little dizzying in bulk. Hence the nursery idea.
Well, that's about it. Check this guy out. His stuff is stellar.